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” We should be translating this as a partnership or true equality, not some form of misguided hierarchy in love or in life.In the quest to find romance, more of us have turned to online dating.As a woman who is happy to contribute my work and skill set to society, as well as be a provider, I am now forced into an uncomfortable world of dating profiles and swiping left by men who make me feel like I do not deserve to be "treated like a lady."Equality is based on the idea and state of being equal, especially in status, rights and opportunities.It does not necessarily mean women are to be treated exactly as men are, or spoken to in any which way imaginable.Labeled with an ugly word because the girl had respect for herself and refused to be spoken to in that way.Don’t get me wrong; the videos were absolutely hilarious and the conversations truly had me in stitches, but I couldn't help but question how things got to this point and what the causes were.Let's get this out of the way now: To break it down plain and simple, I should be paid the same amount as a man to complete the same job; I should have the final say and rights to my body; I should be provided the same level of education and opportunities as a man in order to support myself.It is hard to deny certain feminine attributes in certain situations, while I have to play them up in others.
There are dating sites devoted to particular religious groups, like Christian Mingle or JDate, for example, as well as sites that cater to gay and lesbian daters. This removes a lot of the ambiguity that you face when you meet an interesting person at a work event or a party. Because of the ease and relative anonymity of online dating sites, we may take more risk reaching out to people we would not approach in person.
We have all of our sisters who came before us to thank for that. But, am I alone in attempting to understand the new rules of online dating and the correlation they have with social norms?
Ever hear the saying, “Treat her like a queen, and she will treat you like a king?
Some men have now internalized this as some type of a justification to treat women and speak to women however they want and then blame us for their behavior, claiming this is what we wanted.
But, when did it become acceptable to conjure up a conversation with a stranger, "Are you a termite cause I can give you a mouthful of wood? As women, we are stronger, more powerful and have more control than ever before.